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Everyday debates that never go out of date: work, money, manners, relationships and the small rules people live by. Vote any time, and see how readers' answers shift as more people weigh in.

A new survey says 53% of Brits use tactics like switching off the lights to avoid trick-or-treaters. Fair enough, or should you answer the door on Halloween?
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A new survey says 53% of Brits use tactics like switching off the lights to avoid trick-or-treaters. Fair enough, or should you answer the door on Halloween?

1 vote
A poll finds 32% of Britons tell their always-late friend that plans start earlier than they really do. A fair way to cope with lateness, or a lie between friends?
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A poll finds 32% of Britons tell their always-late friend that plans start earlier than they really do. A fair way to cope with lateness, or a lie between friends?

A new US survey says 66% of job seekers were ghosted by an employer after an interview, and 34% have ghosted one back. Fair game, or never acceptable?
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A new US survey says 66% of job seekers were ghosted by an employer after an interview, and 34% have ghosted one back. Fair game, or never acceptable?

2 votes
Savannah James flies first class while her best friend books business on shared trips, and it has split opinion. If you're far richer than a friend, should you pay to upgrade them?
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Savannah James flies first class while her best friend books business on shared trips, and it has split opinion. If you're far richer than a friend, should you pay to upgrade them?

Half of UK parents in a survey of 6,053 back cutting the six-week summer holiday by a week and moving it elsewhere. Should the school summer break be shorter?
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Half of UK parents in a survey of 6,053 back cutting the six-week summer holiday by a week and moving it elsewhere. Should the school summer break be shorter?

1 vote
Barclays has delayed making UK staff come in three days a week after thousands asked for commuting costs to be covered. If your boss wants you in, should they pay?
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Barclays has delayed making UK staff come in three days a week after thousands asked for commuting costs to be covered. If your boss wants you in, should they pay?

2 votes
A new US survey finds only 41% of singles expect to meet their one true love, and 1 in 5 people in couples doubt their partner is it. Is there really such a thing as the one?
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A new US survey finds only 41% of singles expect to meet their one true love, and 1 in 5 people in couples doubt their partner is it. Is there really such a thing as the one?

A new survey says 74% of US knowledge workers do some work on a typical Sunday. A smart head start on a calmer Monday, or should weekends be strictly off-limits?
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A new survey says 74% of US knowledge workers do some work on a typical Sunday. A smart head start on a calmer Monday, or should weekends be strictly off-limits?

Singapore can now fine bus passengers up to S$500 for playing audio out loud. Should the UK start fining people who play music or videos without headphones?
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Singapore can now fine bus passengers up to S$500 for playing audio out loud. Should the UK start fining people who play music or videos without headphones?

In a US survey, 76% of Gen Z who fronted money for a group expense say they weren't fully repaid. If a friend owes you a fiver, do you chase it or let it go?
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In a US survey, 76% of Gen Z who fronted money for a group expense say they weren't fully repaid. If a friend owes you a fiver, do you chase it or let it go?

A government consultation on letting couples in England and Wales legally marry almost anywhere closed this week. Should the rules on wedding venues be scrapped?
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A government consultation on letting couples in England and Wales legally marry almost anywhere closed this week. Should the rules on wedding venues be scrapped?

1 vote
A new Kinsey Institute survey finds 39% of US singles have used AI in their dating lives. Harmless help finding the right words, or misleading your match?
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A new Kinsey Institute survey finds 39% of US singles have used AI in their dating lives. Harmless help finding the right words, or misleading your match?

2 votes
A recruiter's viral TikTok says bringing iced coffee to a job interview looks unprofessional. Does it say anything real about a candidate?
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A recruiter's viral TikTok says bringing iced coffee to a job interview looks unprofessional. Does it say anything real about a candidate?

2 votes
"Micro-retirement" — planned, unpaid career breaks in your 20s and 30s — is trending with Gen Z. Smart life redesign, or a financial risk dressed up as self-care?
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"Micro-retirement" — planned, unpaid career breaks in your 20s and 30s — is trending with Gen Z. Smart life redesign, or a financial risk dressed up as self-care?

2 votes
"Revenge quitting" — walking out on a job to punish a bad employer — is trending again. Fair payback for bad management, or a reckless move that burns a bridge?
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"Revenge quitting" — walking out on a job to punish a bad employer — is trending again. Fair payback for bad management, or a reckless move that burns a bridge?

2 votes
Etiquette experts say "fashionably late" was invented to excuse rudeness. Is arriving right on time the polite move, or is turning up a little late still safer?
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Etiquette experts say "fashionably late" was invented to excuse rudeness. Is arriving right on time the polite move, or is turning up a little late still safer?

2 votes
The screen turns to face you before you've even ordered, asking for a tip on a coffee you're about to pay full price for. Should you feel obligated to tip at a coffee counter?
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The screen turns to face you before you've even ordered, asking for a tip on a coffee you're about to pay full price for. Should you feel obligated to tip at a coffee counter?

3 votes
Everyone wants more legroom, and reclining eats into the space of the person directly behind. Is reclining your airplane seat inconsiderate?
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Everyone wants more legroom, and reclining eats into the space of the person directly behind. Is reclining your airplane seat inconsiderate?

7 votes
A hundred pages in, it still isn't clicking, but you've already invested the time. Should you finish a book you're not enjoying?
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A hundred pages in, it still isn't clicking, but you've already invested the time. Should you finish a book you're not enjoying?

2 votes
The phone buzzes, and before anyone notices, half the table is looking down instead of at each other. Is it rude to check your phone during a meal with friends?
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The phone buzzes, and before anyone notices, half the table is looking down instead of at each other. Is it rude to check your phone during a meal with friends?

4 votes
You unwrap a gift you'll never use and quietly plan to pass it on to someone else next birthday season. Is it OK to re-gift a present?
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You unwrap a gift you'll never use and quietly plan to pass it on to someone else next birthday season. Is it OK to re-gift a present?

3 votes