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You unwrap a gift you'll never use and quietly plan to pass it on to someone else next birthday season. Is it OK to re-gift a present?

You unwrap a gift you'll never use and quietly plan to pass it on to someone else next birthday season. Is it OK to re-gift a present?

Almost universally practiced, rarely admitted to — which is exactly what makes it worth asking about directly.

What happened

Re-gifting is common enough that etiquette writers regularly publish rules for doing it without getting caught, yet it still carries a slight social stigma when discovered.

Why people disagree

Defenders argue a well-matched, unused gift finding a genuinely appreciative new owner is more thoughtful than letting it sit in a closet. Critics argue it undermines the effort and intention behind gift-giving, and feels deceptive if the recipient assumes it was chosen just for them.

What's still unclear

Whether the ethics change based on how personal or generic the original gift was, and whether disclosure to the new recipient matters.

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